Join comedian, believer, and single mom Lisa Valentine Clark for a good look at life. Whether it’s parenting challenges, mental health questions, or social issues, she and her Council of Moms will tackle it! So come figure out this life thing together with her, with a lot of laughs along the way. A production of BYUradio.
It's easy to feel overwhelmed by all of the difficulties that life throws at us. And while we may try to find the silver lining, sometimes the advice to "look on the bright side" can feel invalidating and ignorant of the real, unavoidable struggles that we're going through. So how can we practice gratitude when nothing is going right? Or is it even worth it? Lisa convenes the Council of Moms, talks with Hank Smith, and tries out gratitude journaling herself to find the answer.
No one likes to think too much about the worst things that could happen. The loss of a loved one, financial crisis, natural disasters, any of these can happen without warning and can completely change the trajectory of our lives. So what things can we do now to make those tough pills a little easier to swallow? Lisa talks with friends, experts, and dives into her own "worst case scenario" to find out.
Between jobs, school, errands, and running kids from one activity to the next, there never seems to be enough time to get everything done. Let alone spare time for a social life and hobbies! So what does it take to actually make sure that everything is allotted the time that it needs? And can we do it without going crazy? Lisa talks with her friends and experts about what we can do.
Everyone wants to be a fun parent, but "fun" can seem antithetical to household rules and structures. But there seems to be a disconnect between what parents see as "fun" and what their kids think. While some parents think their kids want free reign of the house and no curfew, what they actually want may be more meaningful. In this episode, Lisa talks with friends and experts about what it really means to be a "fun parent" while still saying, "no."
Everyone knows someone who they just can’t stand to be in a room with. Whether it’s a disagreement about politics, about religion, lifestyle, or maybe they just aren’t very nice, there are people in our lives who are just harder to empathize with than others. Not to mention that the world events of the last few years seem to have pulled particularly strong opinions out of just about everyone. So is it worth learning to understand these people? And if so, how can we do it? Lisa talks with experts and friends to find out.
Over time, even the strongest relationships often start to mellow and decay. Sometimes, strengthening your connection is a matter of reigniting the flame that was always there; other times it means rescuing a relationship that is on the brink of disaster. So what can you do? Or is it even worth the time and effort? Along with her guests, Lisa digs into her lived experience to find the answers.
Sometimes it just feels impossible to get up in the morning. For one reason or another, or for no discernible reason at all, we just don't feel like ourselves and struggle to feel motivated. As parents this feeling can be compounded when kids are depending on us to take care of them. Where does this come from? And what can we do to dig ourselves out of it? Lisa talks with fellow parents and an expert to find out.
It's hard as a parent to avoid constantly feeling like we aren't doing enough for our kids. The world is constantly telling us to do more, try harder, and be better for our kids. But no one can actually live up to those expectations, right? In this episode, Lisa gets to the bottom of where "mom guilt" comes from and how we can free ourselves from it.
Catch new episodes of our podcast dropping weekly, starting February 8th, 2022! Enjoy fun, entertaining, and useful conversations with host Lisa Valentine Clark that will help you improve yourself, your family, and your community.
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